What girls really want in a guy. The solid truth.?

Like for my I just want a girl who will come over and watch movie, give me a handjob once in a while. And danm if she makes me some food after all that I found a wife, but what about girls? I want to treat them the way they deserve too. My ex I gave her flowers and did romantic poems and notes. For crying out loud she gave me 2 unfinished handjobs and would hardly hold conversations with me all in a years time. She broke up with me after that horrifying experience, now I'm wondering what do you girl look for SPECIFICLY when looking for a solid boyfriend? Don't sugur coat it with stuff like...uhm well you know a funny guy...uhmm has a car...uhm...NO! I mean even devilish things like "he better have money to support my baby!" lol cause seriously I just want a freakin woman to watch some flippen movies with me. lmao.